What Is Your Perspective While Reading?


When reading books, there are usually 2 kinds of point of views: first person and third person. In case you never noticed, let me explain it to you. First person is when we get into the characters head, and it’s usually using the word “I” instead of the name of the characters. Third person, while we can also feel what they feel and know what they are thinking, use the characters name. It’s like we are more of a viewer of the story, but with knowledge of what’s going on with everyone at the same time (kinda useful in real life eh?). If you aren’t clear about it yet, here’s an example:

“Then what do you want form me?”

“I want to lie beside you and know the weight of your dreams,” he said, brushing his lips against my knuckles. “I want to share whole worlds with you and write your name in the stars.” He moved closer and a chorus of songbirds twittered silver melodies.

“I want to measure eternity with your laughter.”

Now, he stood inches from me; his rough hands encircled my waist. “Be my queen and I promise you a life where you will never be bored. I promise you more power than a hundred kings. And I promise you that we will always be equals.”


“What are you doing to me, you plague of a girl?” he whispered.

“If I’m a plague, then you should keep your distance, unless you plan on being destroyed.” The weapons still in her grasp, she shoved against his chest.

“No.” His hands dropped to her waist. “Destroy me.”

(If you can guess which book they are from, comment down below!😜) Both quotes have the same vibes, a lover who’s hesitating and the other half who’s trying to convince the other. But while both felt really deep, we connect deeper on personal level because we are INSIDE the girl’s head, while in the second quote, we are WATCHING the couple.


Now now, no worries, I’m not going to talk about characters point of view, which one you liked better etc etc. It only serves as background or introduction, and a long one at that😅 What I’m going to talk about today is what is your perspective when you are reading?

No matter what povs im reading, I always become a watcher. I stand in the sidelines and watch the events unfold. Even when it is a first person point of view, I can connect deeper emotionally and physically, but I still can’t put myself as the characters, being in their head and heart. For some reason, you can say that I am a third person point of view, always being invisible and being an all-knowing entity in the stories.


While it can get frustrating sometimes because I can’t always connect with the characters, being a watcher the whole time, it also has the good sides. I usually feel more immersed in the world building of the book. Like for example, Daughter of Smoke and Bone is set in Prague. When all hell broke loose, the angels appearing on the bridge etc etc, I can imagine myself there. I can imagine myself watching the angels and people around the bridge, while walking through those cobbledstone paths and touching the ancient buildings.

Pretty awesome huh? Well it also gives me a serious case of wanderlust sooo….

I can’t say which one is better, being in a character’s head or being a watcher. I guess both have advantages and disadvantages, and I think it varies for each reader! I think being a watcher works fine for me this whole time, it saved me a sensible amount of tears because I rarely cried while reading!😂

Your turn: Are you a watcher or the character? Which one do you think is better?

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54 thoughts on “What Is Your Perspective While Reading?

  1. This is SUCH a great idea for a post! I’ve never thought of whether I’m the character or the watcher before – but now I realize I’m definitely the watcher! It does make it harder to connect with characters, but when I do connect with them, I WILL REMEMBER THEM FOREVER (they’re pretty much my new best friends!)

    Great Post Tasya!


  2. This is such an interesting post! Like you, I take on the perspective of the watcher. The story always plays out as a movie in my mind, and I’m always the audience looking onto the screen. Even when the story is first person, I’m a watcher having the character tell the story to me. I can’t think of any time I’ve imagined stuff like I was the character


  3. This is such an interesting discussion!! I LOVE IT. And I admit I’m quite often the watcher too. It takes a really special book to make it feel like me. And I can feel like I’m in the book if it’s 1st/3rd…it just depends on how much I relate really.😂 But I like books that suck you in so much that you don’t feel like you’re reading, just like experiencing it like a movie or something. THAT’S THE BEST.


    1. Yess! It takes a really good book for me to actually can imagine myself in the character’s shoes. Ooh yeah, the ones that are like watching the movie is also amazing! It’s like you can picture all the details of characters, places, and even the soundtrack for the scenes! 😀


  4. I am definitely a watcher – I don’t think I’ve ever read something that made me feel like I was the character in the novel.

    I loved your description of watching the angels descend on Prague in Daughter of Smoke and Bone – that’s exactly how I feel during so many of my reads…slightly removed, but able to see everything unfold around the characters in epic 3D!


  5. When I read, I am definitely “watching.” I’ve said that while I’m reading, it feels like I’m watching a movie in my mind.

    I don’t think I’ve ever read a book and imagined that I am seeing the story through the eyes of the characters, even if it’s in first person.

    No matter how it’s narrated, I feel like I’m standing in the room with them, watching it unfold.

    This is interesting. I had never really thought about if people read differently or “saw” their books differently than I do.


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